Saturday, June 23, 2018

Sometimes You Just Need to Go Against The Grain


"Going Against the Grain”
If you say that an idea or action goes against the grain, you mean it is very difficult for you to accept it or do it, because it conflicts with your previous ideas, beliefs or principles.  -Collins English Dictionary
I have made many mistakes in my life.  Consequences always follow wrong choices or decisions and they certainly do not discriminate. It doesn’t matter who you are, they will show up sooner or later.

Letting the crowd, peers, friends, and family formulate your ideas, beliefs and principles can cause unwanted consequences, guilt and regrets. Going against the grain can be very difficult.  So how can we go against the grain, why would we, when should we, and what are the benefits?

Today I am writing about someone who went against the grain of the traditional thinking of his time, producing impossible actions with amazing results. If you and I want to go from average to great in using the talents God created in us, we can follow the same pattern as he did.

That someone was the lowly shepherd boy David.  How did he prepare his thinking and develop the courage to go against the grain at such a young age, around 15 years of age, among all the naysayers?
 The Preparation: Knowing Who Created You.
It was the best thing that could have happened to him.  His father gave him the job of tending his sheep.  Evidently, the father thought it was a menial job. His father didn’t even think of David when Samuel came to anoint the next King of Israel.  Jesse sent David’s seven brothers, without David, for Samuel to choose and anoint the next king.  Why did he not send David?

I don’t know if David enjoyed being a shepherd or not, but in doing so, he was placed in a position to discover his God, know this God, and to highly reverence this God.  What was the key of tending those sheep? “Be still and know that I am God”. (Psalm 46:10)


Was Psalm 19 written because of David's spending lonely days and nights in the wilderness overseeing his father’s sheep?  I believe it was and influenced David to serve God and to reveal God’s glory to the children of Israel.  The first 6 verses of this Psalm reveal God in nature. The next 5 in His law and the last 3 reveal David’s belief and trusting in God by his prayers to Him.

God sought a man after His own heart (1Sam. 13:14) and said, "I have found My servant David." (Psalm 89:20) Again, in the New Testament, God is quoted as saying, "I have found David the son of Jesse, a man after My own heart, who will do all My will." (This is taken from 1Sam. 13:14 and quoted in Acts 13:22)
David was prepared by seeking the One who created him, having all trust in this Creator (God) and laying his heart out to this God in prayer.  A great pattern to follow if you want to bring out the best of yourself.
Samuel, the priest, attempted to go with the grain in choosing the next king, God wanted, by his outward appearance.  Don’t we do the same?  God plainly lets all of us know in this important matter, "For the Lord does not see as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."  (1 Samuel 16:5)
Even David’s father Jesse, didn’t believe David needed to be with them at the sacrifice.  He left him uninvited with the sheep.  Evidently, this father did not know his youngest son’s heart either.  God knew his heart and out of this heart came devotion, trust, and desiring a relationship of fervent prayers to Him.
David was given something by God after Samuel anointed him. "…and the Spirit of the Lord came upon David from that day forward." (1 Samuel 16:13) David cherished God’s Spirit upon him. How do I know? The prayer of David’s repentance in Psalm 51: 10-11, "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit in me.  Do not cast me away from Your presence, and do not take Your Holy Spirit from me."
David learned about God in the wilderness while protecting his father’s sheep. He knew God’s word was truth, and more importantly he knew Him well enough that he unloaded himself in prayer daily.  He reverenced God’s glory and he would serve Him in honor and do his best to reveal to all His glory.  I believe that is why God said, “I have found David, a man after My own heart, who will do all of My will".  This is what God wants in you and me.  If we remember this, God’s glory will be shown by us in our generation and we will live to obey all of His will as David.
So, David was prepared to follow and obey God’s will wherever it would take him.  As Christians, we should expect no less from ourselves.


( In the next few post I am going to show how thoughts of living in this world can become so ingrained into our thinking that our faith is slowly, and sometimes subtly, dissipated. We as Christians have slowly allowed the ways of the world, (going with the world's grain of thinking and living) to influence our decisions of the way we act and the lifestyles we manifest with that line of thinking.

Is this important? Should we begin (and that we includes me) to notice how the world view is affecting our living as God would have us to live.  Do we delight in the Lord any more? Is our heart's desire to do His will.

Choosing to live by the ways of the world or the commandments of God is our choice.  In the next few post on "Going Against the Grain" I want to use the same pattern David did.

Our children and grandchildren, in a culture of instability, need to have a solid faith to stand on. They must first learn to love God and believe Him.

In my first book, "The Heart Behind the Stone: Develop a Giant Slaying Heart" is a good book for your teenager to read on how David prepared his faith and love of God in order to face and defeat his giants.  Also, I write about the three giants that have taunted the moral fiber of this great country in which we live.  Have you listened to the news the last several months?  Do you want your  children to live as the world or the way God directs them?)

What motivates us to go against evil? Are we afraid of going against the grain of world view? David wasn't and the three giants we are faced with today can be put down just as David put down Goliath.  All we need are men and women after God's own heart. Don't you think it is time? Are you ready to be like David and have "A Cause"? The cost is only $2.99. You can click here to go to: http://amzn.to/1Mi2AXW to purchase online.  This is a Kindle E-book.

Thank you!

Rick Hepler